Sunday, February 21, 2010

I am neither a man nor woman

Am I doing this to purposely draw attention to the fact that is it cool now and days to be a "social outcast". No, I have always felt this way in my heart because I could never find that medium to feed into the gender role nonsense. I was too much of a tomboy as a kid and no man would ever want me when I grew older, is what grown adults would tell me, matter fact they happened to be family. I am too faggish to be considered a man, because no real man sleeps with other men and actually enjoys it without feeling some kind of hatred within.

I have society telling me who I am and what I should be instead of accepting me for who I am and see what I truely have to offer. Judge me based on my demeanor and character and not because I want to burn the ugliness of what gender roles has done to my culture and people as a whole. I must identify, I must I must, but no one has a clear concise reason, why I should oblige with these rules. What difference will this solve? I already will not get protected based on the outdated laws and no job that I have ever applied to concerns themselves with my gender identity but rather my work ethic. It's all about numbers, I do not wish to be either one of your teams because I sincerely feel as if a part of me will die if I sit there and raise my fist and chant, yes I am a woman or yes I am a man.

Why can't I just be proud of being who I am? I know all of this is kind of abstract but to break my soul to be apart of something so called important is so not worth it. I can be a supporter of Women's rights without branding myself with that label. I can have the heart of a man that wishes to provide and protect for my family without being that stereotypical alpha male who let's everyone knows how much of a man he has grown to be.

(to continued)

Matt

Saturday, February 20, 2010

Catholic Church says screw Foster Care system

in our Nation's Capital because they refuse oblige with same sex marriage laws and rights to adopt to same sex couples/homosexuals

http://www.365gay.com/news/catholic-charities-ends-foster-care-adoption-program/

Here is my issue with this, how are you such an advocate for Pro Life but refuse to do anything about the foster care system then you buck up and do something and all of sudden you act like pansies because you don't want a child to live with homosexuals?

None of this makes an ounce of since, our foster care system is bullshit, If you live outside of the boonies in D.C. considering they have been cutting a significiant amount of programs for irrelevant fuckery such as bike racks, but you have the audacity to be high and mighty and deny that child to have an equal oppurtunity because of that "homosexual" they might end up with?

Were these people high as kites when a Florida woman left 7 children in a room with a dirty mattress and jar in which they ate and pissed in and the system did nothing and did not find a need to check on these children and continues to pay this woman and still did nothing after it was investigated by Dateline? WTF?

What about the other heterosexual people in this country who abuse the foster care system for a quick buck and illegal child labor? It's perfectly normal to want someone to live with them but hell no to a homosexual who has done absolutely nothing wrong but wishes to not feed into the statistics of that foster child when he/she ages out of the system. What about those people?

A child really does not give a fuck about who his/her parents are, all they want is a home, a room of their own, just something to call their own due to unfortunate circurmstances that they had no control of, what abou their rights? Limiting them to heterosexuals only solves what?

A lot of the people who make up the foster care system are teenagers, a teenager has the mind frame to formulate and educated decision about their own beliefs and values. I know not one person in my life in the foster care system who gives a damn about their parents being homosexual, all they care about is finding a home before they age out of the system or else they either end up in prison, homeless, or die.

Now if you want to get all biblical and morale pushers, my bible is the same as yours and the rights of a child comes before the selfish and ill wills of an adult who believes they have the best interest when all you are doing is pushing agenda. In the Sodom and Gomorrah story, those were rapists and molestors which have been proven by fact that rapists and molestors can either be both homosexuals and heterosexuals. Equal responsibility and one is not greater than the other.

I don't believe in forcing people to do things they do not wish to do but I propose you use common sense and the best interest of the child and not your own before deciding someone else's fate.



http://www.casaforchildren.org/site/c.mtJSJ7MPIsE/b.5301295/k.BE9A/Home.htm

Matt